7 Texting Mistakes That Turn Men Off

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  • Jessica

    Reply Reply November 10, 2015

    This is an AMAZING video. Thank you!!

  • Millie

    Reply Reply November 20, 2015

    #1. I LOVE LOVE LOVE your videos AND your message.
    #12 (#1 deserved more than just one slot to express its full magnitude) Can we fix this format so that it opens on iPhones??? Pretty please. ?

  • Fatima Khan

    Reply Reply November 21, 2015

    I love your video I did some mistakes while I am texting to a guy on Facebook he didn’t answer me I am waiting since I was on Facebook I tied to talk normal but I did have a problem talking to him he is always on his phone and computer he didn’t read my message tell me what I should do please give me feedback

  • Ole Badd Troya

    Reply Reply November 22, 2015

    Yikes! I’ve made most of these mistakes with a guy I really like. At least now I know why I never heard back from him. Hopefully fate will give me another chance. Thanks for the tips. You ROCK! 😉

  • Sandra

    Reply Reply November 23, 2015

    As I was watching this video, I’ve noticed that the men are also making these mistakes to women, it has happened to me. I started texting with a guy I met online, his texts were a whole day thing and some of them were very long also I have noticed is men that always ask what do I do for a living? ( I usually don’t like to ask that kind of question at the beginning but is men that are asking it first !!! Lol I feel like the roles have turned ?. Another guy I was starting to get to know he texted me complaining of how he hated his boss and how annoyed she made him feel and blah blah , that really turned me off . I stop texting him all together.
    I have learned a lot from your videos and I just wanted to say thank you so much!!!

  • Margaret

    Reply Reply November 23, 2015

    Thank you for this great advice! I have a situation in which this guy asked (after 1 date) “do I ever think about him at all? said he was sorry and had a bad day. I totally lost interest, but he keeps texting me these messages- like songs, etc.! Will he get the message that I am simply no longer interested? Any word of advice.


  • Alicia

    Reply Reply November 23, 2015

    What happen if you send a txt and he never answer or maybe 1 month after ? :/

  • florida

    Reply Reply November 23, 2015

    Thank you this is nice tips..

  • oklahoma

    Reply Reply December 4, 2015

    I did the question about where does he work at. I didn’t know that was something I shouldn’t ask but thanks for letting me know.

  • Ms.Maria

    Reply Reply December 18, 2015

    I have one when guy doesn’t gave me explanation to hang out with me for five minutes.

  • monica

    Reply Reply December 29, 2015

    My EX text me for my birthday, I ignored him, he text me Christmas night 1057pm, I woke up saw it at 130am, I responded. He text me the next day said he hoped I had been doing well, I didn’t respond until later almost 2hours later and said I’m well, thanks. I haven’t received a response since my text.

  • Bdonna

    Reply Reply February 17, 2016

    What do I do when he seem interested but only when text

  • Miranda

    Reply Reply February 25, 2016

    What if the guy is the boring texter? I know a guy who is so boring when it comes to texting. I really want to talk to him, but it’s hard to hold a conversation when all I get back is “lol yea”.

    He’s really into talking sexual when texting. We have good conversations in person, but when it comes to texting, he makes me feel like he doesn’t want to talk. So that’s why I don’t like to text him first. But I found that texting him once in awhile, keeps me on his mind in a way. Is that odd?

  • shkurtesa

    Reply Reply June 7, 2016

    Hi Adam!

    i really like it..thanks for help!!

  • Melina

    Reply Reply June 7, 2016

    I need advice.

  • Joanne

    Reply Reply June 11, 2016

    Hi Adam, I really liked your video as it makes sense and I think back to the mistakes I make such as writing a novel when the guy I like asks me what I did today. Thanks for the tips and will be more conscious next time I text and even send a message on facebook.

  • Gina

    Reply Reply June 27, 2016

    Hey Adam,
    first, I think your videos are great because you have an incredible screen presence and you provide us ladies with this important understanding of the species ‘men’!!
    What I found to be really cool is teasing the guy with a secret, like, not giving away what I do for a living and let them guess for quite a while. It drives them insane with curiosity!! 😀

  • Mel

    Reply Reply July 12, 2016

    He says he misses me the way we would see one another and be together and all.. How do I get him to protest that again in text the way he use too and want to be together in that way again ??
    I told him I wouldn’t know any of this by the way he texts me lately

    Help please ?

  • Emilee

    Reply Reply July 14, 2016

    Thanks for the advice …I really like this guy so for once I decided to play coy for awhile but as things have progressed I asked if he could give me more and not leave me hanging. He did spite what my boys around me said…in fact everyone’s male advice was spot wrong. I have actually announced my presence and feelings as we’ve evolved. He finally texted love you. That was huge for me. I’ve been patient and kind with this man spite some days pacing wanting to hear from him. I’ve held back no emotions when it comes to romance and that he better just like me for me. Well the nice me. The one who is being a good friend. It’s hard to blow a good thing if you really want it. I’ve been honest and brave about our scenarios and he responds. I think a man wants real, not games. It never was a game. Good love just takes time. Weman need to learn to enjoy the ride. For us it’s exhausting because we don’t like the roller coaster, we get our feelings way to involved. Guys on the other hand take their time to make sure she’s the real one. My advice also is just be yourself and be patient. At the same time if you feel he is out of line, say so without the trash talk. We afterall need to show them we are real and wont be taken for granted. If he isn’t into you, it’s good you know now. Oh and men love flirty sexting that might be a little humorous at the same time. But only after so many casual dates, men don’t like easy women, they think they are whore-able….lol, get it? Love Ems PS. I still haven’t won him over completely but he did send me a romantic love song and said he dreamt of me. Blushing 🙂

  • Malia

    Reply Reply August 3, 2016

    I love all of you videos and tips. It’s really helped me understand what I needed to actually do to get the results I’ve been craving for so many years.

  • Karen

    Reply Reply December 2, 2016

    I did all those mistakes. I am 58 so i feel like i an new to all these things. I a man but we are not exclusive. We have fun, but we also fight. Whrn i am angry, i will be texting all my bad feelings. He wouldn’t response. He said i am just crazy. When we see each other , as if nothing happened. He wouldn’t even bother to discuss the prob. A lot of times, our fight is through text. I am trying my best not to text when i am upsrt. I will turned off my phone now. Wr have hanging out for 6 months now but he wont commit. He just keep saying, just enjoy what we have. He has no gf. But he is only 28 and i am 58. But he help me a lot. I tried to break this, whatever we have thru text. But when i see him, things will be ok again. By the way, i live at the 2nd floor of the apt. He lives downstair. Adam what should i fo?

  • Stephanie

    Reply Reply January 11, 2017

    I met my friend a few months ago and have grown quite fond of him. He friended me on FB about a month later after an event we attended and were reintroduced. He started texting me right away and wow!! Then we spent an amazing 4 days together including a holiday. That was great till he backed off. I was crushed so say the least. I brought to his attention that I noticed and he said it was to far to fast. Ok, no big deal…… So I waited. And I am glad I did, because he just needed a little time to think. Quite the opposite of what I thought at first. Now we are texting and they are HOTTER than ever!! He is cooking dinners for me, and we are getting closer. Slow and steady. Neither of us want to move to fast. But these two videos were what I needed to help! Thanks

  • Patrícia

    Reply Reply January 19, 2017

    When i text him and don’t hear from him very long lets say going now almost for one month what shall i do forget that guy and do not message him any more? Or send him a second message?

  • alicesun

    Reply Reply January 25, 2017

    Thank you for your video ! Loved it! I made a mistake double texting the other day to a new boyfriend because he did not answer. He has not responded in 2 days where he was responding fast for 4 days. This is the first guy I’ve been interested in …in a long time. Should I wait the one week & then send a bait text? Please email me. Thanks a ton!

  • Tanzi

    Reply Reply February 3, 2017

    Great efforts 👍👍👍

  • Peggy

    Reply Reply February 5, 2017

    Love the simple Do’s & Dont’s of texting! Thank you! 🥂

  • Ginny

    Reply Reply February 20, 2017

    This video is so helpful! And I think you’re right, texting is an art. When I first started, shudder…it’s painful to think. What I love about texting is that you can really see how you’re coming across, and you have a chance to change it. I’ve deleted and rewritten many texts before I’ve sent them, and I think that’s improved my relationships. What’s hard about texting, is that once it’s sent, you can’t get it back. I sent a lot of terrible ones when I first started texting. I’ve learned not to respond when I’m tired, or upset about something. And if I do, and it’s to someone close, I might tell them how I’m feeling. As in, “it’s awesome to hear from you. I’m beat, can I text you tomorrow?” Thanks again for the video, really appreciate your perspective

  • Lora

    Reply Reply March 21, 2017

    You know, I ALWAYS think that the way people text is for a reason… even the use og dots, commas ect. Usually when we chat, we never use the final period “.”before we press enter unless we type “.” to make the other shut up. And switch subject. At least this is how I experience it 😛

    I asked him:
    – So how is it going with your football?
    – It´s going forward/better.. I couldnt play for a while now so I just have to be patient. 🙂
    (YOU SEE? He used the DOT).
    – Better is good! Oh I see.. It isn´t because of your leg is it?

    And the end. No answer. Eaten by a dragon. Poff.
    Did I just ask a factual question… Guess so.

    But never mind. He is a son of a mother,- and he loves his mother, he is 32 and should stop playing football when he is 34 because then he is too old… at least in Norway.
    So i dont care 🙂

  • Jen

    Reply Reply May 23, 2017

  • Marcy Mosley

    Reply Reply May 23, 2017

    Thank u because it helps to stay positive n building up confidence an make some feel happy even when they had a rough day
    It does take faith. Patient courage prayer teach us how to love others with out harm them with this we say negative

  • mamolapo

    Reply Reply August 5, 2017

    Thank you very much in


    Reply Reply September 4, 2017

    I have tries to text my ex to get our divorce underway.
    i got no answer.
    from him.
    do you have any suggestions?
    He has a girl friend.I would think he would like to get the ball rolling . I
    get no answer..
    People me tell me he does not want a divorce.

    We have been exasperated for 3 years this June.
    i tried to divorce him but he moved. now i do not know where he is.?
    but i text him privately on Face\book..
    to get feed back got nothing.
    help me please
    Stephanie Moynier

  • Jenn

    Reply Reply September 20, 2017

    I think I have made all of these mistakes and I’m so regretting the texts that I sent prior to reading this!! Moving forward this will be so helpful! Thank you!

  • Tatiana

    Reply Reply September 27, 2017

    Adam, you are genius! so simple but working advice!!! learning more and more through your videos helps me to become a harmonious woman~
    many thanks!!!

  • Julie

    Reply Reply October 21, 2017

    I tried the memory text. Said I know this is random, but I was thinking about the 1st time we hung out….he text back and said you think to much:(

  • Dar

    Reply Reply November 7, 2017

    Texting is hard

  • Cathy

    Reply Reply December 5, 2017

    He saids he has been sick with the flu so I told him to text me when he feels better, but he gives me a text that needs a response, then I respond and he gives nothing for to days so I tried your advice, I texted him to remind him of when we first met and told him how proud I was of his accomplishments at work, and I texted (” If you were here right now”) and it worked!!…He texted me back and gave me a cute nickname (Kat) which I love. But it’s cold again and of course he is still sick with the flu. So I gave up and texted him to text me when he feels better and to take care of himself.. NOW WHAT? because I really like this guy I want him to become my Mr. husband, Yeah!!!

    Help me…

  • Annette Patterson

    Reply Reply January 24, 2018

    Hi Adam love your stuff! Your very helpful with everything. Thank you for all the advice. I’d like some help with this be in patient. ? I’ve been seeing this guy on n off for about 6 months. When he text me early in morning and tells me he has things he has to do n that he will talk to me later?? Or text me. And I try my best to wait all day & sometimes all night. And not here from him. It gets really frustrating. Because he is a very busy guy.. I don’t want to text him any negative text or come off as a bitch! But I get irrated! How should I handle this? Please help. Thank you.

  • Elizabeth Kay Ross

    Reply Reply February 25, 2018

    I have made several of these mistakes. I am an older woman, and I
    am not up to date on the modern day dating world. I understand , now to let him start the conversation. I have been negative, in some of my texts. I will try to remember, not to do that. I enjoyed the video, very informative.

  • Diane H Woytus

    Reply Reply March 13, 2018


  • Patrina

    Reply Reply October 21, 2018

    This really is for me….the guy I am dating never answered my tex I would send him the nicest love songs but nothing in return and I was wondering why…now I know I think I tex him too often so I am going to slow down and see what happens. …

  • Zelda

    Reply Reply October 28, 2018

    Love this soooo much.

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