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21 Comments

  • Shelly

    Reply Reply November 20, 2015

    Hi! I think some of your advice is good and makes sense but I’ve tried some of this on a guy I was recently dating and this will not work on someone who is avoidant and or emotionally unavailable.I think that should be stated in your videos.

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply November 22, 2015

    I’m struggling with this because I get tired of the concept that if we do something wrong with communication – that a guy will run away. I’m just being honest…if a man really is ready to try a relationship with a woman..nothing scares him off. I just think that’s the way it should be. Playing these games – although they are logical in nature, just give men the room to be shallow, picky and flakey. I’d rather find someone serious, unshakeable and focused on me no matter what I say or don’t say And when. I think I’ll look for that guy…;)

  • Fatima

    Reply Reply November 24, 2015

    I was on Facebook I send him way to much message on Facebook he thinks I am stalking him he pretends to see my message. And he doesn’t answer me back for the last 2 – 3 – 4 weeks I am waiting for his answer when I was on Facebook he didn’t answer me I feel angry at myself

  • Jane

    Reply Reply November 25, 2015

    I agree with Jennifer, if I have to play mind games then he’s not for me, if he wants his “space” then say so don’t just ignore, and if you are done, then so be it, we are done!! The man clearly doesn’t think I’m worth the effort, so why stick around and attempt to make it work. Move on to someone who does think I’m worth the effort. If women stopped being enablers, men would “up their game” and make an effort when a woman did show an interest. Sadly all this BS allows men to behave badly and we, as women, allow it, hence excusing men of their behaviour!!!!

  • Cherisse

    Reply Reply December 26, 2015

    I agree with Shelley, I’ve tried some of these techniques as well and it seems to have no effect. What’s the point of trying to make or reconnect if they don’t seem emotionally ready.

  • Delia

    Reply Reply March 13, 2016

    Hi, guys sharing my story I have been dating this guy over two months now, I don’t go with him his apartment till 4th date. I like him start fell inlove with him but he never tell me if he loves me only saying that he really likes me and how I look nice simply. I also never tell him if I loved him. I text him a lot I got few text back even send him 8 text I got one text back or two. But I understand he is busy travel a lot. I just came after 3 days with him in beach resort. He was saying that he need cancel his travel to have time with me. But I felt like I’m person who put all energy to him. Specially on bed.

  • Jennifer

    Reply Reply March 19, 2016

    Hi Adam! I recently met this guy on online dating, and we talked for a little bit through text because he lives in a completely different state. But then I didn’t talk to him for a bit because of school, and then when I sent him a text, his responses were rather boring, and doesn’t imply any interest in continuing a conversation, in that I honestly don’t know how to respond to it. Is it safe to say that he’s not interested anymore?

  • michelle

    Reply Reply April 18, 2016

    I’m also a little sceptic about this kind of playing.. even I understand that all kind of games maybe work for awhile.. Mostly it doesn’t persevere…
    It detains also a lot of womens great sponteneity to play mandatory hard to get for instand. and feel its wrong to make a move, or make a first move.. that’s no good!
    If you like each other nothing stands in the way to be honest, playfull and be in contact if you feel so.. Just stay the way you are, so the other person can be himself too. Even if he rejects you! Because doing all this kind of stuff you won”t know the truth..It maintain anyway, and you are losing yourself even dubble!! Every man loves games.. until game is over..
    Than you’ll never know why 🙁 So, be real!!

  • michelle

    Reply Reply April 18, 2016

    I’m also a little sceptic about this kind of playing.. even I understand that all kind of games maybe work for awhile.. Mostly it doesn’t persevere…
    It detains also a lot of womens great sponteneity to play mandatory hard to get for instand. and feel its wrong to make a move, or make a first move.. that’s no good!
    If you like each other nothing stands in the way to be honest, playfull and be in contact if you feel so.. Just stay the way you are, so the other person can be himself too. Even if he rejects you! Because doing all this kind of stuff you won”t know the truth..It maintain anyway, and you are losing yourself even dubble!! Every man loves games.. until game is over..
    Than you’ll never know why 🙁 So be real!!

  • Kendra

    Reply Reply May 2, 2016

    I found a somewhat simple solution to the guy never texting back. I told my guy that when he doesn’t text back anything I hold my breath and can’t sleep because I worry about him sometimes and sometimes I just text him to know he is ok. He understood and now he texts me back within 5 minutes every time even if it is just “zzz I’m sleeping”

  • Meredith

    Reply Reply June 21, 2016

    What if he gives you his number on a dating website? He told me he would be out of town until today but would like to meet up. I actually text my number back but never followed up. Wait? Or text?

  • Abir

    Reply Reply July 16, 2016

    Hey !! Yiur videos are amazing .. i really i begin follow your advice and i find them work in 100% .. so i’m one of those women who text a guy anytime 24/24 but i’m sick of this situation .. now i changed it !!so i have one question : which time to text a guy is the best ??The morning or before going to sleep ?? Which one affects him more !!!!

  • Dorianne

    Reply Reply July 19, 2016

    Texting when online dating and long distance…..trying to keep it short, bUT when texting/messaging is the option and trying to get to know the person……where does it end, and when does that long distance drive begin?

    Online dating and texting…new to it…don’t really like it (face to face person myself)..what are the protocols to online dating texts?

  • Grace

    Reply Reply September 28, 2016

    Hi Adam
    Ive sent him two messages buh he still hasnt reply.
    He also stared at me in school
    What should i do?

  • Jus me

    Reply Reply October 2, 2016

    Hey everyone…
    I’ve been doing OK so far in trying to keep my space and not “over text” the guy I really like…
    He’s been going through a really Rough stage in his life and I let him know that I’m here for him… But not too much in his space text in all the time. I made a mistake yesterday and CALLED him while I was intoxicated. I feel horrible. I even. Text him once. I hope I NEVER do that again.

    Wish me luck!

  • Tamara Reto

    Reply Reply January 14, 2017

    About 6 months ago he broke a date with me right before I was moving away for grad school. He is a professor and is very busy so he breaks plans alot. I became very upset and went to his house. I told him we should be friends and get to know each other better because I was stressed out about moving and school. I have not heard from him since because during this time I texted him too much, explaining how I felt and why. He never responded. Its been six months. Should I email him a letter?

    • Cynthia

      Reply Reply February 21, 2017

      Hello Tamara

      I think it’s time for you to move on. Live your life have fun hang out with friends if it’s meant to be he will look for you if he doesn’t his loss

  • Angi

    Reply Reply February 1, 2017

    I’m finding these videos helpful. I’m new to dating and I am so direct and impatient. I feel had over held over guy and made all the wrong moves from the first message. Now I’m interested in someone and the videos are so encouraging. Obviously there isn’t a script to follow but just understanding what works and what doesn’t and why is helping me have patience and understanding what his reaction to me might when I say something is super helpful is deciding what to say.
    Thanks

  • Tori

    Reply Reply February 9, 2017

    Hey Adam what if he never text me back or called in three days

  • Cynthia

    Reply Reply February 21, 2017

    I do that now. I feel like I’m texting to much. I seem to text him first. But not always he does text me also. Example this morning I text him good morning, he did respond he pretty much always does but havnt talked to him all day now it’s early evening and I’m dieting to text him but I’m not I’m waiting impatiently. Lol hope I can get through it hehehe

  • Alexa

    Reply Reply July 12, 2017

    Thanks Adam for these small clips. I have it bad like any other girl who was into a boy/man. I met him last year and we instantly clicked and I can’t recall if I texted him first but he did ask for my Snapchat and then I told him I hardly check Snapchat that if he could text me. We slowly started talking late at night.

    At first I only saw a friendship but when I get teased,and if I get asked if there’s something there by people we know ..I get sort of lost (in my inner thoughts I’m not sure how I really feel) in the beginning I denied and pushed him away (it’s my self mechanism) he showed me mixed signals as to wether he was interested in me. I even asked him a question but it confused me even more. Some small awk occasional event conversations vice versa happen and then we stopped talking for a while. (6months) I confessed to him I liked him before (or at least felt a instant connection but I knew there was many things I wasn’t sure about confessing it to him. He basically said the same bc we both had gotten out of a rough recent relationship. He said “but at the end of the day I just thought of you as a good friend” today he called me fam. I’m confused about a lot of things would you be able to help. I don’t know if I should just give up – I can’t help the way he makes me feel. I haven’t felt this in a good while. Many of my friends say he’s and fuck boy if that’s the case I need rock forget about him or I nee help.any advice for me Adam ? Please and thank you

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